Why Your Facebook Relationship Status Matters

Dear Dr. Darcy: My girlfriend of 2 months has not changed her relationship status from single to in a relationship on her Facebook wall. I know it sounds stupid but it makes me feel insecure about being with her. The only reason someone doesn’t want to do it is to be able to still date.…

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Transference: The Unwelcome Crush

Screen shot 2013-07-08 at 10.27.50 AM Dear Dr. Darcy: I am a 26-year old student, studying for my Baccalaureate of Social Work. I’ve been working with a trauma therapist since November and about a month ago, I realized that I am gay- despite having previously been married to a man and having two (amazing) children.…

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Born Again Lesbian

Screen shot 2013-01-03 at 10.26.05 AM Dear Dr. Darcy: I am extremely confused. I am 32 and have been in relationships with men, to whom I have been attracted, all my life. However, I discovered an intense attraction to women in college. This attraction seemed to grow, and I often have a female friend with…

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Lonely Lesbian

I’m in my 20’s and I’m lonely but I don’t know how to meet other girls.  I’m just realizing that I’m probably gay, my family has no idea and won’t for the foreseeable future, and most of my friends are straight and don’t know I’m gay.  Consequently, I’m alone a lot and I don’t have…

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Mixed Signals

Screen shot 2012-01-02 at 10.11.02 AM Dear Dr. Darcy: This girl and I, both 22-year old females, have been college classmates for a few years but started hanging out lately.  The first time we hung out was a few weeks ago where we drank at her house. She was buzzed but not drunk. I had…

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Stone Butch?

I’ve found your website browsing through the net… I’m from Brazil, btw, sorry for the English mistakes.  Me and my girlfriend met online and we lived in different states for two years. We used to miss each other a lot… and when we got to see each other, fire would burn from the sheets. [However,]…

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She’s Let Herself Go…

Dear Dr. Darcy: HELP!! My Girlfriend of 7 yrs used to be super cute.. She is like a size 0 with huge boobs.. awesome green eyes… like everybody’s idea of “the ideal girl”… BUT… Lately she has let herself go.. like completely. I’m talkin jungle eyebrows… bad hygiene all around. Her hair is starting to…

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Pack Rat & Commitment Phobe

Dear Dr. Darcy, My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for numerous years.  I have tried to live with him but he is a pack rat, there’s not a lot of room for my stuff and he is somewhat controlling about how things in the house should be.  Currently we take turns going…

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