Pack Rat & Commitment Phobe

Dear Dr. Darcy, My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for numerous years.  I have tried to live with him but he is a pack rat, there’s not a lot of room for my stuff and he is somewhat controlling about how things in the house should be.  Currently we take turns going…

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Butch Makeup

QUESTION I’ve been toying around with the idea of experimenting with makeup for years but I’m a butch and I’m worried about how femmes will view me. I certainly don’t want to look femme. Is there a way of using it as a butch? ANSWER: A butch who is willing to experiment with makeup is…

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