Hitch or Ditch

Dear Dr. Darcy – My ex and I dated for 5 years starting in college and we broke up because we were on two different pages on a lot of topics.  He and I have different religions and different political views.  While we were dating we tried very hard to allow each other the freedom…

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Stone Butch?

I’ve found your website browsing through the net… I’m from Brazil, btw, sorry for the English mistakes.  Me and my girlfriend met online and we lived in different states for two years. We used to miss each other a lot… and when we got to see each other, fire would burn from the sheets. [However,]…

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She’s Let Herself Go…

Dear Dr. Darcy: HELP!! My Girlfriend of 7 yrs used to be super cute.. She is like a size 0 with huge boobs.. awesome green eyes… like everybody’s idea of “the ideal girl”… BUT… Lately she has let herself go.. like completely. I’m talkin jungle eyebrows… bad hygiene all around. Her hair is starting to…

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Pack Rat & Commitment Phobe

Dear Dr. Darcy, My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for numerous years.  I have tried to live with him but he is a pack rat, there’s not a lot of room for my stuff and he is somewhat controlling about how things in the house should be.  Currently we take turns going…

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Butch Makeup

QUESTION I’ve been toying around with the idea of experimenting with makeup for years but I’m a butch and I’m worried about how femmes will view me. I certainly don’t want to look femme. Is there a way of using it as a butch? ANSWER: A butch who is willing to experiment with makeup is…

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