From Secrets to Stories: Choosing When to Share Your Past
Choosing when to share your past—and deciding how much to share—is one of the trickiest balancing acts in relationships. Whether it’s with a romantic partner, a friend, or even a colleague, the decision to open up can feel overwhelming.
In today’s episode, we’re diving into the delicate art of disclosure—learning when and how to share your personal stories so they don’t become burdensome secrets.
We discuss:
- The right timing to share mental health diagnoses, physical illnesses, financial struggles, legal troubles, family secrets, or personal mistakes.
- How to balance family loyalty with honesty when revealing family secrets.
- Tips for discussing sensitive topics like politics, religious differences, or biases with new people.
- How to present your mistakes as opportunities for growth and accountability.
PLUS, I uncover the #1 mistake people make when they’re on the receiving end of someone else’s vulnerable story—and how to avoid it.
Tune in to learn how to navigate these tough conversations with confidence, compassion, and authenticity.
Xxoo Darcy
🎉PS: This is the last episode in Season One of We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling. Thank you for supporting 54 episodes! See you in January xoxo 🥂