The Passion Paradox in Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Emily Jamea

The only thing that makes me cringe more than hearing Trump speak is the statistic that 49% of single American women have been on the receiving end of a penis photo they didn’t request. From accidental penis tweets and unsolicited sexts to cyber-flashing random women on subway trains through AirDrop, ...

It recently occurred to me that although we’re in month five of the pandemic, my wife Steph and I have yet to discuss how we each want to live for the foreseeable future. Like, the nuts and bolts of staying safe - risks we’re willing to take in the name ...

It’s not that I’m a grudge holder. Really. In fact, several years ago when I catapulted myself into a journey of forgiveness for someone who had wronged me, I measured my capacity for forgiveness at the outset, and it turned out I’m in the normal-range of forgivers. It’s the apology ...

Q Dr. Darcy, I’m having some sexual issues with my boyfriend. We started dating just before the pandemic. By the time we were out of lockdown I was so sexually deprived that every time we hooked up, we bypassed foreplay and got right to sex. Now that we’ve been having ...

Millennials: We’re all fucking fatigued. You’re exhausted from COVID and I’m exhausted from having to motivate you to take it seriously. This was originally written as a text to the two of you I’m related to  (The last sentence. Actually, no. The whole thing), but it occurred to me that ...

Q Dear Dr. Darcy, I see you talking and posting about the BLM movement a lot and I want to ask, out of genuine curiosity and desire to understand, what does any of it have to do with relationships? I miss your relationship blogs. A I hear you, mama. You ...