From Secrets to Stories: Choosing When to Share Your Past

 If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know that I’m all about personal responsibility – not in the capital R sort of way, rather, in the how did you contribute to the conflict you’re in sort of way.  Basically, if you can’t pony up to your ...

Hi Darcy. First of all, you are amazing. Thank you for giving young women like me someone to look up to. So I just had a breakup and I’ve been drowning in “how to get over a breakup” posts. What I really want to read is someone else’s breakup story ...

Q Hi Dr. Darcy, I’m a 23-year old female and I’m in a throuple with a straight couple. Samantha is in her late twenties and Justin is in his early thirties. They're emotionally intelligent, successful and fun individuals who think monogamy is not the answer to long-term happiness. The only ...

Q Dr. Darcy, I’m having some sexual issues with my boyfriend. We started dating just before the pandemic. By the time we were out of lockdown I was so sexually deprived that every time we hooked up, we bypassed foreplay and got right to sex. Now that we’ve been having ...

Dear Dr. Darcy, my boyfriend of more than 2 years just gave me an ultimatum. He says I either stop being jealous or he’s done. I wasn’t going through his phone or anything like that. I stopped doing that a long time ago. But he was more than an hour ...

So I’m falling for an unhappily married straight woman I work with. We have become close, sharing information about our own relationships and we have built a strong bond. I’m not stupid. I know this is probably a disaster. The main problem is I feel so confused because I try ...