Gaslighting: Everything you need to know about it

Hi Dr. Darcy,  I need your help because I realize I don’t know how to pick partners. No matter how careful I am to look for red flags, it never ends well. They’re always unavailable no matter how I meet them or what they say in the beginning. Is there ...

Dear Dr. Darcy,  Ever since I started my own PR business a few years ago I’ve had men reaching out to me through my website or on Instagram, asking me to meet up to discuss “business” and insisting to meet in person over drinks or dinner instead of Zoom/phone. I ...

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago because she felt like I deserve more and I felt like she needs time and space to put her focus on the things she stresses out about. I miss her dearly and want her back. What do you recommend?   The ...

I don’t know how to tell you this. And I don’t know that I even want to. I keep thinking the words will come to me. So, I’ve been giving it time. But each day my mind feels blank. Like a new Word doc, cursor blinking. Or one of those ...

I have been with my husband for 20 years. Since we’ve been together, he has always cheated. He cheated on me with women we knew as friends, [he cheated on me with] my sister [with whom] he had kids, and most recently last year [he cheated on me with] my ...

 If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know that I’m all about personal responsibility – not in the capital R sort of way, rather, in the how did you contribute to the conflict you’re in sort of way.  Basically, if you can’t pony up to your ...