The Passion Paradox in Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Emily Jamea

I don’t know how to tell you this. And I don’t know that I even want to. I keep thinking the words will come to me. So, I’ve been giving it time. But each day my mind feels blank. Like a new Word doc, cursor blinking. Or one of those ...

I have been with my husband for 20 years. Since we’ve been together, he has always cheated. He cheated on me with women we knew as friends, [he cheated on me with] my sister [with whom] he had kids, and most recently last year [he cheated on me with] my ...

 If you’ve been following me for any length of time, you know that I’m all about personal responsibility – not in the capital R sort of way, rather, in the how did you contribute to the conflict you’re in sort of way.  Basically, if you can’t pony up to your ...

Hi Darcy. First of all, you are amazing. Thank you for giving young women like me someone to look up to. So I just had a breakup and I’ve been drowning in “how to get over a breakup” posts. What I really want to read is someone else’s breakup story ...

Q Hi Dr. Darcy, I’m a 23-year old female and I’m in a throuple with a straight couple. Samantha is in her late twenties and Justin is in his early thirties. They're emotionally intelligent, successful and fun individuals who think monogamy is not the answer to long-term happiness. The only ...

Q Dr. Darcy, I’m having some sexual issues with my boyfriend. We started dating just before the pandemic. By the time we were out of lockdown I was so sexually deprived that every time we hooked up, we bypassed foreplay and got right to sex. Now that we’ve been having ...