The Passion Paradox in Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Emily Jamea

It wasn’t the worst fuck up imaginable, but it was not good.  I was on a podcast talking about Johnny Depp and Amber Heard’s trial, and the host asked me to explain what it means when someone is diagnosed with both borderline personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder.  “So what ...

“For better or for worse.” It’s probably the most widely used phrase exchanged in wedding ceremonies. And I have a problem with it. I’m all for making a commitment to the person I love. And I’m all for loyalty. And I’ll tell you a secret: When I love someone, I ...

The number of emails I’ve gotten this week to weigh in on the Depp-Heard trial is almost equal to the amount of spam I’ve gotten in the same timeframe.  Every outlet is looking for experts to judge who the crazy one is. The irony of being asked to defame one ...

It’s not that I’m a grudge holder. Really. In fact, several years ago when I catapulted myself into a journey of forgiveness for someone who had wronged me, I measured my capacity for forgiveness at the outset, and it turned out I’m in the normal-range of forgivers. It’s the apology ...

Admit it: The term we have to talk sends a little shiver up your spine. It’s probably one of the most universally dreaded statements. I’m not sure if it’s worse to be on the receiving or giving end, but for today’s purpose, I’m going to teach you how to be on the ...

Dear Dr. Darcy,  My partner and I have been trying to get pregnant for almost a year with no luck. We’re now seeing a fertility doctor who wants to start the process but is going so slowly (oral medicine for a couple months before trying in vitro). This entire thing ...