The Passion Paradox in Long-Term Relationships with Dr. Emily Jamea

Every now and then I come up with a new thought that sheds light on a common relationship problem in a more illuminating way. Last month I had such a thought.  I think I cracked the code on why sometimes even the most carefully worded feedback lands on our partners ...

Dr. Darcy, I keep having the same disappointing experience when I have casual sex. I get really close to finishing when the guy suddenly slows down and it lessens my orgasm. I even say, “Don’t Stop!” WTF?     WTF is the first thought that pops into my head as ...

Hey Dr. Darcy, there’s a girl in my workout class that I really like but I’m not sure if she likes me. Do you have any thoughts on DMing her and asking her out?     I always do a quick Google search before answering questions to make sure the ...

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago because she felt like I deserve more and I felt like she needs time and space to put her focus on the things she stresses out about. I miss her dearly and want her back. What do you recommend?     ...

Any shrink worth their weight will tell you that criticism is toxic in relationships. It’s not just bad for the person on the receiving end — it’s bad for you because over time, your emotional memory gets strengthened and more adept at criticizing (which research shows will make you less ...

What pops into my mind whenever I hear the words “new year” is New Year's Resolution. Now I don’t want to be the Resolution Grinch but I’ve never been down with them — mostly because only 8% of ppl who make one actually reach it.  I think you’ll be interested ...