How do I approach a guy I like?

How do I approach a guy I like?

Dear Dr. Darcy,
There’s this guy - not only is he a total hottie, but we go to the same gym, we frequent the same bars with our respective friends - I see him everywhere. We obviously enjoy the same hobbies and I really want to meet him, but I’ve never approached a guy before. I don’t want to come off as desperate or too pushy. How do I meet this guy, what do I even say?

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How do I choose between a guy and my best friend?

How do I choose between a guy and my best friend?

Dear Darcy, 

I ended up sleeping with my best friend’s ex and now she hates me... 

A couple of weeks before I did it I asked her hypothetically if it would be okay and she said no, however, when I [slept with him] she and I were having severe problems and I saw her ex as more my friend than as her ex. He was very close to me at the time and I had feelings for him and I acted on them. I regret what I did and now I have to choose between him and her and I’m not sure that I can do that... what do I do?

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