We Have To Talk: 7 Tips To Get You Through It

We Have To Talk: 7 Tips To Get You Through It

Admit it: The term we have to talk sends a little shiver up your spine. It’s probably one of the most universally dreaded statements. I’m not sure if it’s worse to be on the receiving or giving end, but for today’s purpose, I’m going to teach you how to be on the giving end (without ever uttering that sentence).

Conflict and bad feelings only get worse when we avoid dealing with them. We tend to avoid difficult conversations for fear of the outcome. We don’t want things to get worse, we don’t believe the other person will change, we don’t have the time or it’s just not the right time.  The excuses are endless. And they stop here.

Here is a step-by-step guide to getting you to the other side of a difficult conversation. Grab your balls, your ovaries, or your equivalent thereof and commit today to build some emotional muscles by learning this life skill.

Click below to read my Answer!

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Bitch Less. Smile More: The Ratio That Will Save Your Relationship

Bitch Less. Smile More: The Ratio That Will Save Your Relationship

No one likes a Negative Nathan. It’s true. Humans universally gravitate towards positive, happy people – and we are put off by pessimism… unless that pessimism is delivered in a very dry, witty, dark-humored way, which very few people pull off (my niece being among the few exceptions). But I digress.

If your conversations with your partner rarely put a smile on his/her face, you’re probably pushing the limit of the ideal bitch-to-smile ratio. Yes, I’ve quantified it. Click below to read the bitch-to-smile ratio.

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