Sexpectations

Sexpectations

Q:

Dear Dr. Darcy:
My boyfriend doesn't please me in bed. Basically, he won’t go down on me. He says that all the other girls he dated were able to come through penetration. He’s tried giving me oral sex a few times but always stops after a minute or two. Whenever I try to discuss it I feel like he turns it into there being something wrong with me that I can’t come through sex. He’s made it clear he doesn’t like going down on women but for me, that’s the only way I can orgasm. I’ve looked up how to have vaginal orgasms and I keep trying but it just never works. Is there something wrong with me?

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When To Call It Quits

When To Call It Quits

I’m not a quitter. Not personally and certainly not professionally. People come to me when they need hope - a cheerleader – someone to fuel inject them with possibility. But every now and then, a client or a friend shares a story about a relationship and it becomes profoundly clear to me that the solution involves ending the relationship.

Knowing when to end a relationship is one of the most important adult skills you’ll ever acquire. Click below for 5 tips to ensure that your relationship doesn’t pass its expiration date.

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