Why You Lack Self-Awareness

Why You Lack Self-Awareness

If you find yourself having the same issues in your relationships – intimate or platonic – it’s not a coincidence: It’s a lack of self-awareness.

 People with self-awareness know what their strengths and weaknesses are, and they know how those weaknesses affect others. 

 You have opportunities on a daily basis to learn about yourself, to gain valuable insights from the world so that you make new mistakes. 

 If you can’t rattle off 5 of your biggest weaknesses within 2 minutes (I just tried to confirm that’s a reasonable timeframe), it means there’s a way you’re moving through the world that’s keeping you from coming face to face with reality. Click below to read 7 things you’re doing to avoid the truth.

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Why LOVE is irrelevant to the success of your relationship

Why LOVE is irrelevant to the success of your relationship

Relationship success is a science.

Long-term love has less to do with the falling part than it does with the maintaining part.

We’re all familiar with the falling, if not through first-hand experience then from movies, music, and social media. Media of every kind loves to highlight the beginnings of relationships: The meeting, the dating, and if the planets are aligned, the marrying.

And that’s where society loses interest - just when the relationship starts getting real.

Love isn’t all you need. Because like all emotions, love ebbs and flows. It’s not sustainable.

Click below to learn the only thing relevant to the success of a long-term relationship.

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Taming Your Inner Bitch

Taming Your Inner Bitch

Let’s talk about your inner bitch. We all have one. She’s the voice that says you’re not good enough, or smart enough, or pretty enough, or whatever enough. She’s the one who makes you absolutely fucking miserable.

I named mine Marcy, and she ran my life for decades. Try as I might, I couldn’t get away from her. I read books, paid therapists and hired coaches, and nothing worked.

Then one day, I tried a random, simple idea, and it changed everything.

Click below to see how I finally got rid of my inner bitch.


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