Why You Attract Losers

Why You Attract Losers

It never fails. Every time you end a relationship, your girlfriends tell you that they thought you were too good for your ex. They never really understood what you saw in him/her, or why you couldn’t see the warning signs that were so obvious to them.

Everyone falls for a loser now and then. But if you find yourself repeatedly scratching your head about why you seem to be attracted to painfully wrong partners, chances are you’ve fallen into one of these categories…

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Over 30 and Single AF?

Over 30 and Single AF?

“How are you still single?”

It’s a question that pulsates with a subtext that roughly translates to WTF is wrong with you that’s undetectable to me? 

Hearing it often enough can drive you to download the first dating app your phone offers up, then white-knuckle your way through mediocre dates in an effort to cross the 3-month line. 

And because it’s your goal, it reads as desperation, which means you never do. 

So you focus on work. Or your interests. Or nothing at all, but you also don’t channel your energy into finding a partner. 

Suddenly you blink and you find yourself over thirty and wanting a relationship, yet feeling ill-equipped to enter the dating arena because you lack the experience of your peers. 

No worries. I got you. Here are some truths you probably hadn’t contemplated:

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